Wednesday, February 28, 2024
An Uncle Vernon Story
Disappointments in life
I will document some of the challenges in my life.
I applied for an obstetrics residency at LDS hospital when I was an intern. One day a drug representative asked me if I wasn’t going to the LDS hospital for my residency. I told him that I hadn’t heard. He said that all the slots were filled. I called the doctor who was the head of the department. When I asked him why I hadn’t heard he told me they must have lost my application.
I had learned about an opening for a doctor in the BYU Jerusalem center from doctor Linford, who had served there from 1996-1998. When we got home from our mission in Germany in 2000, I applied for that position. The individual at BYU who was over the program had a disagreement with John and I was told never to apply again.
After we moved to North Salt Lake, I knew the doctor who was over the MTC in Provo. He was leaving and I sent in an application to replace him. I didn’t hear anything and I finally called them and they said they must have lost my application and they had hired someone else.
Disappointments and unfulfilled expectations come into everyone’s life. It depends on how we handle them. That is the test of our trip through mortality.
Thursday, February 22, 2024
2 inches and two squares
2 inches and two squares
This a strange title for a blog. The content is referring to our experiences growing up.
Two inches
Alice
was told that when she went to take a bath she was only to run two
inches of water in the tub. Her mother would say every time she went to
take a bath,”Only two inches Alice Virginia.”
The reasons were the cost of the water and at that time houses had septic tanks.
You
probably have never had to deal with a septic tank. You are blessed
with a sewer line that the water and sewage take that from your house
and you never think about having to pay the water bill.
Two squares
This
is grandpa’s story. We had a bathroom and tub all the time I was
growing up until we moved to Lander. We were allowed as much water in
the tub as we wanted. My mother asked her three boys to only use two
squares of toilet paper when they went to the bathroom. We did not know
what a bidet was and no one where we lived had any knowledge of that. I
did as my mother requested and used just two squares. The toilet paper
at that time was not soft like we buy today, but it was better than the
paper in my grandmother Stucki’s outhouse. When we went to Paris we used
the outhouse because she did not have a toilet in the house. It was
built before they had indoor plumbing. My uncle Morris Athay put the
bathroom toilets in the house. The toilet paper in the outhouse was the
Montgomery Ward catalog.
You are raised in an affluent society
compared to your grandparents. Your grandmother was paid 35 cents an
hour when she was growing up working at the dime store and babysitting. I
had a paper route and then worked at J. C. Penny after I was in high
school for fifty cents an hour after school sweeping the floor.
Our
parents did not have much money and had to pinch pennies and we grew up
in that environment. So when you think things are bad remember your
grandparents did not have it as good as you do.
Love,
Grandpa