Sunday, March 23, 2014

Lying to the Lord


I answer the doctor’s phone in the missionary department on Monday morning and Tuesday afternoon. Last week I received a call from a father of a young man who was to report to the MTC in Mexico City to learn Spanish preparatory to serving a mission here in the United States in a Spanish speaking area.

The father said that he did not believe in immunizations and that his son had not had any immunizations at all. He asked what immunizations he needed to go to Mexico. I read him the list of medications and immunizations he would need to receive to go to Mexico City.


The Father said, ‘Well I don't think he needs to have all of those immunizations.’ I told him that those were the required immunizations to go outside United States. He replied, ‘Well he's going to serve his mission in United States so he really doesn't need those immunizations does he?’  I said yes, he does need to have those immunizations. I also went to his missionary application and looked at his application. The son indicated that he would receive the immunizations. He was ill prepared to serve a mission because he had no immunizations at all and it takes some time to acquire these. I told the father that if he wished, he could call the missionary department and have his assignment changed from the Mexico MTC to the MTC in Provo and that he would not need to have any immunizations by going that route.


There is a tendency among some members of the church to try and make their application fit their desire to serve a foreign mission.  They will discontinue the medications that they are taking, because they have heard someone say that one cannot serve outside the country if one is taking those medications. They will not disclose conditions that would preclude them from serving a mission to a foreign country. They are of the opinion that they will go “where you want me to go dear Lord, as long as it is where I want to go.”


There are some that minimize conditions or illnesses and as such the doctor that does the applicants physical exam may not do a thorough exam. Then when the bishop or the stake president reviews the application, every thing seems to be in order.

I call these actions, " Lying to The Lord".


Elder Marvin J. Ashton was taught by a teacher and has said in conference that a lie was any communication with the intent to deceive. We do not only communicate by writing and speaking. We also communicate by gesture and by body language. We communicate by withholding information. Thus, what we say or write may be true, but not contain the entire information necessary for the recipient to know to make a proper assessment.


We need to be honest and not lie. Our article of faith states; “We believe in being honest,true,chaste,benevolent ...”


We go by the maxim; Honesty is the best policy.

One of the Ten Commandments is; “Thou shalt not bear false witness.”


In this case the father, probably more than the son is to blame. The son was willing to receive the immunizations, but the father did not prepare his son properly for his mission, because of his prejudice.


I call this "Lying to The Lord" because of the scripture found in The Acts of the Apostles.

1 But a certain man named Ananias, with Sapphira his wife, sold a possession,

2 And kept back part of the price, his wife also being privy to it, and brought a certain part, and laid it at the apostles’ feet.

3 But Peter said, Ananias, why hath Satan filled thine heart to lie to the Holy Ghost, and to keep back part of the price of the land?

4 Whiles it remained, was it not thine own? and after it was sold, was it not in thine own power? why hast thou conceived this thing in thine heart? thou hast not lied unto men, but unto God.

5 And Ananias hearing these words fell down, and gave up the ghost: and great fear came on all them that heard these things.

6 And the young men arose, wound him up, and carried him out, and buried him.

7 And it was about the space of three hours after, when his wife, not knowing what was done, came in.

8 And Peter answered unto her, Tell me whether ye sold the land for so much? And she said, Yea, for so much.

9 Then Peter said unto her, How is it that ye have agreed together to tempt the Spirit of the Lord? behold, the feet of them which have buried thy husband are at the door, and shall carry thee out.

10 Then fell she down straightway at his feet, and yielded up the ghost: and the young men came in, and found her dead, and, carrying her forth, buried her by her husband.

 (Acts 5:1-10)


In our case, we will not physically die when we lie or deceive, but we loose the access to the spirit of The Lord and if we do not repent we will die spiritually.


Thus, my grandchildren, honesty is the best policy. Do not lie and especially do not lie to The Lord.


Love,

Grandpa

Friday, March 21, 2014

Listening to the Lord


I had been a stake president for a few years and had no problem in knowing which person to call in any of the stake positions that became available. Then there came a time when I had a difficulty in knowing who to call. It did not come easily as it had in the first few years. One day the regional representative came to Lander to visit me. We talked about a number of things. I mentioned to him about my seeming lack of ability to receive inspiration.

He had no counsel for me. I suggested that perhaps I should be released as the stake president. Nothing happened. One day I was in what we called our celestial room and pondering. I heard a voice in my mind saying, "If you want to be like me, you are going to have to think like me."


I then realized that I had to do what the Lord would do if he were here, do my homework. I would need to consider the needs of the stake, learn to know the people and their strengths and experience. Then after I had made a decision I took it to The Lord for his approval.



“We shall never have the keys of authority committed to us to be rulers until we will rule just as God would rule if he were here himself. 14:97.”
Discourses of Brigham Young by John A. Widtsoe, Brigham Young


You too can listen to the Lord.  Try it you will like it.

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Disappointment is a part of life.


Disappointment is a part of life.


Every one will have disappointments in their life.  I have had some in my life.  I wish to share some experiences with my grandchildren that perhaps they might know that every thing has not gone smoothly in my life.  Some may look at my life and think that I had every thing go smoothly without bumps along the way.  This is not the case.  I will detail only a few of these incidents for your consideration. There have been many more.

I once asked my father if he had ever had any disappointments in his life, he said he did, but he never shared them with me, nor did he detail them in any of his journals or history.


I had applied to be the doctor at the Jerusalem Center of Brigham Young University.  I had heard about this position and thought that I would retire and work as the doctor in Jerusalem. I made application but I was rejected.  Apparently my son John had angered the person responsible for appointing the doctor at the Jerusalem center.  When I asked for them to consider my application, I was told that I did not need to apply again.


Our friend Mary Kocherhans' father was a doctor at the MTC in Provo.  He retired and so I applied to fill that position. I did not hear anything from them, so I went down to the MTC one day to ask why I had not heard anything.  The secretary told me she could not find my application.  They said they must have lost it. The position was filled.


This is similar to what happened to my application for an obstetric residency at LDS hospital. For a link to this click here.


We have to learn to deal with disappointment. Every thing cannot go our way in life. It was not designed to go that way here in mortality. We would not learn to do anything in this life if everything were easy.  In Second Nephi Chapter two we learn that there must be an opposition in all things. We can learn from it or we can let it occupy our thoughts and mind to the point that it embitters us.  Rise above your disappointments! 

Love,

Grandpa

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Know your ancestors


You might want to print this out and answer the questions.  If you have trouble answering the questions, you can always ask. 



Where was your mother born?


Where was your father born?


How many siblings does your mother have?

Can you name them?


How many siblings does your father have?

Can you name them?


How many first cousins do you have?


Where was your grandmother Gee born?

What was her maiden name?


Where was your grandfather Gee born?


Where was your other grandmother born?

What was her maiden name?


Where was your other grandfather born?

What did he do for a living?


You had 2 ancestors who were general authorities in the church.  Can you name them?


The first Gee to come into the United States settled in Connecticut.  What did he do for a living?


His grandson moved to Ohio near to the town of Kirtland.  He did not join the church, which was organized in 1830, but his son joined the church in 1832.  What was his name?


Your grandmother Gee's ancestor had a vision.  What was that vision and what was her name?

How did it influence her to join the church.




True or False?


You had ancestors who came from:


1. England

2. France

3. Switzerland

4. Germany

5. Australia

6. Denmark

7. Holland

8. Baltic States

9. Russia

10. Greece

11. Africa

12. China

13. Mexico

14. South America

15. Wales

16. Scotland

17. Ireland

18. Austria

19. Italy